FAQ: FLUSTER: Get Talking, Get Deep, Get Flustered.
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Can I get it in time for Christmas (or my winter holiday of choice)?

We’re afraid not. As we noted on the campaign page, we don’t expect to get your reward to you until April. Manufacturing and shipping all take a lot of time. But if you still want to give FLUSTER as a gift, check out our free IOU card, which you can use to tide someone over for a while.

Last updated: November 05, 2017 09:57

Is it appropriate for youngsters?

Not exactly, but mostly because the questions won’t be especially interesting to them. FLUSTER does, as Ira Glass likes to say, acknowledge the existence of sex, but there isn’t anything explicit. FLUSTER is aimed at 18+, but some particularly precocious younger teens might have fun with it too. And in case it wasn’t obvious: the SEXpansion Pack is definitely less appropriate for the kiddos.

Last updated: November 05, 2017 09:57

Is FLUSTER safe to play with family?

You know, initially we would have said no. But now we’ve played it with our own families, and it’s actually really fun. You might learn some things that you’d rather not know, but with a bit of question editing you can have a great time with the whole family.

Last updated: November 05, 2017 09:57

The name FLUSTER makes it sound scary. Is it all about making people uncomfortable?

No! FLUSTER isn’t about putting people on the spot or cornering them in awkward situations. It’s about having conversations that are outside our usual routines, and that can make you feel a little bit flustered (but in a good way, we promise).

Last updated: November 05, 2017 09:57

Why does Canadian shipping cost as much as American shipping? Aren’t you guys in Canada?

You are correct. Despite its many redeeming qualities, Canada unfortunately doesn’t have the most cost-effective shipping options.

Last updated: November 05, 2017 09:57

Does FLUSTER really do all the things you say it does?

Actually, it does! If you don’t want to take our word for it, here are a couple of testimonials from people who got one of the 100 decks we made a year ago:

“It’s especially good when you already appreciate the people you’re with, and then they reveal all these surprising things you never knew, and it’s like, oh my gawd I love you even MORE!” - Hanna (North Vancouver, BC)

“On a family vacation, our usually demure family became the most rowdy table in the restaurant as we aired our unspoken thoughts, admitted to teenage misdeeds, showed our true political stripes, and… genuinely bonded. Even with a few racy questions removed from the deck (for Mom’s sake), FLUSTER brought out the juiciest of family lore!” - Alex (Toronto, ON)

“I laughed, I learned, and we all left the party knowing so many funny and interesting things about each other. I also learned a whole lot about myself!” - Jarrett (Vancouver, BC)

Last updated: November 05, 2017 09:57

Who are the people in the video?

Everyone in the video is a friend who was kind enough to come on short notice to play some FLUSTER on camera and tell a few stories. We picked people that had played FLUSTER in the past and were passionate about the project. Most of them didn’t even know each other going in, but as is often the case with FLUSTER, they quickly opened up to each other and all left feeling like they had formed a special connection, even though there was a camera in their face the whole time! Nothing in the video is scripted, and no one was hired as an actor, so all the laughing, cringing, etc. that you see is 100% genuine.

Last updated: November 09, 2017 13:07

What are all the gameplay options?

You’ve got FLUSTER Classic (which we described in the How To FLUSTER section); FLUSTER Throwdown (the same great conversations, with some added competition); FLUSTER Honeymoon (how well do you know your nearest and dearest?); FLUSTER Countdown (no time to overthink your answer, just spit it and quit it!); and FLUSTER Hot Seat (sometimes quantity is just as fun as quality).

Last updated: November 09, 2017 13:07

Are you thinking about sustainability when it comes to materials & manufacturing?

Yes! We’re limited in how far we can go in this regard at this stage, but it’s something we care deeply about. Your “Backers’ Edition” FLUSTER deck will be printed on 60% recycled paper at a factory that has eco-friendly certifications. It’s a start!

Last updated: November 15, 2017 22:52

I live in Vancouver, can I just pick my copy up in person and save you the shipping cost?

Thanks for trying to help us out! The thing is, we’re using a third party for shipping. So your reward will be going straight to you, without us handling it first. So as counterintuitive as it may be, we aren’t actually able to take a shortcut by delivering it in person.

Last updated: January 28, 2018 11:59

Shipping Updates
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Current Estimated Shipping Date: April 2018

Last Updated At: 01/15/18
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